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Balancing Family Expectations During a Short Visit Home

Went to Warangal for a short visit with my child, thinking it would just be some family time before I came back to Hyderabad for work. Somehow everyone started giving me errands and arrangements as if I still live there and can be available for everything. They speak to me like I left only last week. The strange thing is, the place still feels comforting. I wanted my child to know where I came from, not to become the old version of myself again. I feel guilty even wanting the visit to stay small.

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Warangal can still feel like home without making you available for every errand. Have you told them plainly that this is only a short visit before you return to Hyderabad for work?

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