Anonymous discussion · Need to talk
Uncertainty in Early Relationship Intentions and Meeting Plans
I’ve been talking to someone and the conversations have genuinely been good, but when I suggested meeting this weekend, the reply stayed vague. I also asked if they were looking for something intentional, and that answer was unclear too. Maybe I’m asking for something basic and still making it too complicated. I don’t need a big declaration, but I also don’t like being kept close enough for conversation and far enough to avoid an answer. I’m thinking of sending one direct message with a specific plan and asking if they actually want to continue getting to know each other. If it ends the connection, at least I won’t keep leaving my time open for nothing.