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Weekend pe dono roommates ghar chali gayi hain, aur group ka casual plan bhi ban gaya bina mujhe include kiye

Weekend pe dono roommates ghar chali gayi hain, aur group ka casual plan bhi ban gaya bina mujhe include kiye. Shayad jaan-bujhkar nahi tha, groups pehle se bane hue hain, but hostel room mein baithke lag raha hai sabke paas kahin na kahin jaane ko hai aur main decide kar rahi hoon akeli kya khaungi. Log pooch lete hain “okay ho?” but koi ye nahi poochta ki chai pe chalogi? Main bhi invitation ka wait karti rehti hoon, phir bura lagta hai ki kisi ko yaad nahi aayi. Message karungi aur mana kar diya toh room aur empty lagega. Bas ek normal conversation chahiye, koi emotional best-friend type plan nahi. Class ke kisi person ko chai ya short walk ke liye kaise poochte ho without making it awkward?

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