Anonymous discussion · Need to talk
Aaj mummy ka call ke baad family WhatsApp group mein message aaya ki main Prayagraj se unko Lucknow le aaoon, kuch hafton ke liye
Aaj mummy ka call ke baad family WhatsApp group mein message aaya ki main Prayagraj se unko Lucknow le aaoon, kuch hafton ke liye. Tickets, medicines, appointments, sabki discussion ho gayi. Bas mujhse kisi ne poocha nahi ki main manage kar paungi ya nahi. Jaise main automatically available hoon because I am the daughter who handles the house. Mujhe bura lag raha hai ki mujhe bura lag raha hai. Mummy ko help chahiye, ye samajh mein aata hai. Pichli baar woh almost teen weeks rahi thi aur bachchon ka school, khana, saas ki care, sab disturb ho gaya tha. Is baar husband ne poocha, “Tumne phir haan kaise kar di?” Mere paas answer nahi tha. Siblings concern dikhate hain, decision mujhe batate hain. Unko lagta hai homemaker ka time kisi ka time nahi hota. Aur agar main short visit bolun toh comparison shuru—falani beti ne itna kiya, kisi ki bahu ne parents ko saal bhar rakha. Sach ye bhi hai ki dependable beti kehna achha lagta tha. Ab wahi label bojh lag raha hai. Main mummy ko safe aur close rakhna chahti hoon, par apna poora ghar caregiving arrangement banana nahi chahti. Kya short stay bolna selfish hona hai? Kal group mein reply karna hai, ya shayad chup rehkar packing shuru kar doon. Bas thak gayi hoon.